Sunday, May 19, 2013

Incentive vs. Internal Motivation {Blogging through the Alphabet}

Last Wednesday morning I knew I needed to finish straightening and cleaning our house because we were having company coming to town this weekend. I ended up being up much of the night before when Lauren had a tummy ache, and I was dragging a little bit. I decided to offer the kids an incentive to help me clean up. I had to go out early that afternoon to an appointment, and I'd be driving right by Sonic on my way home. I told them that I'd pick up slushies if the house was clean before I left.


We did manage to get everything done and I happily stopped by Sonic to place our drink orders.

The next morning, I walked into the house after a run and noticed how pleasant it was to open the door and see a clearn downstairs -- nothing left on the counters that needed to be dealt with, nothing left out on the floors that had to be picked up. Even the kitchen table was still completely cleared off. I smiled when I walked in the door and realized that everything was picked up.

I started thinking about how it takes something special (in this case, company coming) and/or a special incentive in order for me and the kids to put forth the effort to keep the main areas of the house picked up.

On the other hand, I had just come in from a run. I didn't have a slushy waiting for me at the end of my run. I don't run because I want to win a prize. I run because it relieves stress, because I like knowing that I'm doing all I can to stay healthy, and because I like the challenge of seeing whether I can run faster or longer than the day before.

I don't need a tangible incentive when I get up early in the mornings and lace up my running shoes. It's all about the internal motivation I have and the intangible rewards I find from running.

Why is it that I need some sort of incentive when it comes to cleaning my kitchen? Why is it that I choose to spend time on the computer instead of making sure that the twenty-seven random objects in the living room get put away?

I'd like to take the internal motivation I have when it comes to running and apply it to my duties as a wife, mom, and homeschooling teacher.

If anyone has any magic housecleaning motivation to spare, you can send it my way. In the meantime, I'll continue to wonder why I find so much satisfaction in waking up early to run four miles up and down hills but still can't find the motivation to put away the random stuff scattered around my living room.

I is for both Incentives and Internal Motivation. Therefore, I'm linking this post to others that are on the letter I in our Blogging Through the Alphabet series. It's still not too late to join us on this round -- jump in anytime!


Blogging Through the Alphabet

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Friday, May 17, 2013

Random 5 on Friday, May 17th

I didn't keep track of highlights or quotes or anything special this week, so these five tidbits will be truly random.

1. While traveling with Brennan and Lauren, we passed a car carrier that was packed full of golf carts. Brennan's response: "I'm now one step closer to seeing everything there is to see in the world."

2. I saw the temperature reading on my van's dashboard hit triple digits twice this week. I guess it's summertime.

3. While discussing the dress code for Addison's upcoming chorus tour, one of the girls reminded everyone that "modest is hottest."

4. After getting up before 5:00 to go running a couple of times, my whole body schedule is warped. This morning I felt like I had slept in -- it was almost 5:30 when I woke up.

5. Right now, Brennan and Tim are watching Weird Al Yankovich videos on You Tube. (Talk about random).

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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

High School Prep Genius {Schoolhouse Crew Review}

 photo CPG-logo-main_zps66938827.jpgWhen other people hear that I'm homeschooling a high school student, I often have people ask me about teaching Chemistry or Algebra or some other similarly scary-sounding subject. Honestly, teaching difficult subjects doesn't scare me. Some of my biggest worries are that somewhere along the way I'll miss an important deadline or fail to teach a specific course and therefore make it harder for Addison to get into the college that she wants to attend.

The High School Prep Genius manual from College Prep Genius has eased a lot of my fears.

 photo Untitled-1_zpsac2e8af4.jpgWhen I worry about appropriate course selections, I can see what is on the "Three Tier Guide to High School" on page 18. It has separate course suggestions for a distinguished program, a recommended program, and a minimum program.

If I find myself overwhelmed with the thoughts of college entrance exams, scholarships, and college applications with specific time schedules, I can find a month by month timeline for college and career decisions. It tells when to sign up for college entrance exams, when to apply for scholarships, and more.

This book isn't just directed at parents of high school students. The book is intended for both me to use and for my student to use. Throughout the book there are assignments for the parents ("encourage your student to take the most rigorous courses he can to prepare him for college or a career") and assignments for students ("decide what goals you want to accomplish in the next four years and what subjects you really want to focus on").

High School Prep Genius is appropriate for both college bound students and those that prefer not to attend college immediately following graduation. The book spends some time focusing on general skills such as getting organized, volunteering, building a strong support system, and achieving financial independence. The study skills sections in the book will help all high school students develop better study and test-taking skills. Approximately a quarter of the book is devoted to such topics as choosing a college, preparing for standardized tests, and applying for college admissions. The final chapter includes helpful tips for making the most of the college years, including how to live with a roommate, why it isn't a good idea to stay up all night, and how to say "no" when you realized you can't do everything.

Addison was initially overwhelmed with this book and thought is was a bit too focused on student achievement. In particular, she pointed out how the month-by-month timeline for high schoolers suggests taking the PSAT for practice in both her freshman and sophomore years before taking it for real as a junior. From a parent standpoint, though, I like knowing about all the options and then choosing to omit the suggested tests or activities that I feel are unnecessary.

As Addison started working through the materials, it became less overwhelming. Perhaps the most useful thing that she did was to set up a College and Career Notebook according the to High School Prep Genius recommendations. She now has a single spot to record her classes, her volunteer activities, books that she reads, and any awards that she receives. She hasn't started seriously looking at colleges yet, but her College and Career Notebook has a section ready for her to jot down information about potential colleges, deadlines for admissions, etc.


High School Prep Genius is the best resource I've seen in terms of organizing all the necessary information about college entrance exams, scholarships, admissions, etc. The helpful information about academic and life skills is a valuable bonus that makes this guide book a well-rounded addition to every bookshelf.

Although I read this book as the parent of a homeschooled student, the book is not written specifically for homeschoolers. With the exception of about 10 pages about homeschool transcripts in one of the appendices, all of the information would be equally suited for parents of a student attending a public or private school.

College Prep Genius recommends the High School Prep Genius guide for parents and students in junior high through high school. Even if your high schooler is nearing graduation, there is still helpful information in this book to help guide him off to the first years of college. The book retails for $29.95.


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Halfway Through Our Walk {Wordless Wednesday}


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Friday, May 10, 2013

Random Five on Friday May 10th

Instead of sharing random facts about our week, I scribbled down a few quotes on a pad of sticky notes. I ended up with five that are worth sharing. Interestingly, I think all five of them came from my oldest child. Thank you, Addison, for adding so much laughter to our week!

1. From lunchtime: "You know what's really great? Geography songs. They're way better than Grammar songs."

2. Proof that Addison learned something when studying formal logic. "The problem is that I just made a universal proposition."

3. While I was using vinegar and baking soda to clean out the drain in the kids' bathroom: "A girl in my science class (online) said she's never done the baking soda and vinegar experiment . . . and she calls herself a homeschooler."

4. Recounting a conversation: "Some friends of mind from Colorado, that I met in Virginia, went to Pepperdine (California) for the lectureship too."

5. Repeated at least a few times by three members of the family early this week: "My calves hurt."

Taken at the top of the mountain, prior to their 22.5 mile hike to the bottom

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Sticky Roasted Chicken {Mother's Day Dinner Blog Hop}

This morning I'm sharing a favorite recipe as part of a special Mother's Day Dinner Blog Hop. Be sure to scroll all the way down to the bottom of the post to find the other recipes my blogging friends are sharing today.


Sticky Roasted Chicken


2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon paprika
1/2 teaspoon onion powder
1/2 teaspoon thyme
1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
1 whole chicken (or bone-in chicken thighs)

Mix all of the spices together in a small bowl. I often double or triple the spice rub so that I can save the remainder for another time. A month or so ago I kept adding the correct proportions of the spices to a small jar so that I'd have a secret stash to last a while. It reminded me of a sand art project until I shook it all up.

Rub the seasoning mixture on to the chicken. If using chicken parts, be sure to rub both on top of and under the skin. If you have time, refrigerate the seasoned chicken overnight. If you don't have that much time, it's not a deal-breaker. I often just rub the spices on and put it straight into the hot oven.

For bone-in chicken thighs, bake at 425 degrees for about 45 minutes. For a whole chicken, I follow the USDA Food Safety recommendations to bake at 350 degrees for about an hour and a half. In either case, use a meat thermometer to make sure the internal temperature of the chicken reaches 165 degrees.



Thanks for stopping by on our Mother's Day Dinner Blog Hop. Be sure to visit each of the bloggers below for your next course.

Kathys Cluttered Mind - Table Center Piece
Home Sweet Life - Appetizer (Fresh Bread or Potato Fries)
Ben and Me - Seasoned Crackers (Appetizer)
For Him and My Family - Crock Pot Main Course Options
Through the Calm and Through the Storm - Sticky Roasted Chicken (Main Course)
Debbie's Homeschool Corner - Raspberry Cheesecake in a Jar (Dessert)
Treasuring Life's Blessings - Strawberries and Cream Angel Food Cake (Dessert)
Our Homeschool Studio - Strawberry Lemonade (Beverage)
Following Him Home - Beverage

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Thursday, May 9, 2013

Papa's Pearls {Schoolhouse Crew Review}

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I have to admit that I fell in love with my latest review book as soon as I opened the front cover. The author had signed my copy and added the note, "You're fantastic!"

Papa's Pearls: A Father's Gift of Love and Wisdom to His Children and Grandchildren is Diane Flynn Keith's biography of her father, Carol Joseph Flynn. Through touching stories and anecdotes, the author allows the reader to share in some of the wisdom and love her Papa shared with his children and grandchildren throughout their lives.

As I read this enjoyable book, I was drawn into the stories of Papa's growing up years and was inspired by the way he turned his life around. This book wasn't merely a story about a single man's life, though. It's a story of how this man took his life experiences and intentionally passed his wisdom along to his children and grandchildren.

Papa had countless sayings that are recorded in this book -- pearls of wisdom that can inspire the reader just as they inspired his family. For instance, when faced with a troublesome situation, Papa simply declared that "bad things don't happen to our family." It's hard to worry if you know that bad things don't (and won't) happen. That phrase didn't just represent a wishful way of thinking; it represented a confidence in knowing that their family could overcome anything, even things that might seem bad to others.

One thing stuck with me as I finished the book. Throughout the stories, Papa's children and grandchildren all point out the ways that they knew their Papa loved them and was always there for them. In many cases, it was simply the way he frequently said, "I love you. You know that, right?" I'm touched by the story of a man who took the time to intentionally make sure every single member of his family knew how special they were and how much he loved them. His influence on his family makes me want to be more intentional with the way I speak words of encouragement and love to my children.

I could ramble on for several more paragraphs trying to recount more of my favorite passages or more of Papa's sayings that touched me. Instead, I'll just say that this book is one of the most enjoyable, inspiring books that I've read lately.

You can purchase your own autographed copy of Papa's Pearls from the author for $14.97.

As for the inscription in my book, "Fantastic!" was the way Papa always answered the question, "How are you?" Not only does that phrase remind me of my own dad, it also reminds me of the influence I can have by intentionally sharing my positive outlook on life with my family.


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